No, I don't think it's necessary...men don't like to argue. Think about when you first meet someone, everything is so wonderful because there's no arguing and you're discovering new things about one another.
At some point in every relationship, you will argue. That to me shows that your human. You were your own person before you met your mate and will continue to be. Compromise is hard and it's all about who you are willing to go through that with. So, yes arguing or a healthy debate is good. Just as long and it is done fairly. It's ok to agree to disagree. When you first meet someone to me u meet their representative. Their best person. Discovering someone is different than knowing them. It gets old and that time passes. It's after that initial phase you know what you have and if it's worthwhile.
You can learn a lot about a person by the way they handle themselves in an argument. Do they walk away, bring up the past, insult or disrespect you, can they express their emotions verbally or do they shut down? A way a person argues is a good way to determine how they will cope with stressful situations that may arise during the course of your relationship. It is also a good way see if you and your partner are be able to except the fact that the two of you do not have to agree on something and actually allow this to bring your relationship closer
No, I don't think it's necessary...men don't like to argue. Think about when you first meet someone, everything is so wonderful because there's no arguing and you're discovering new things about one another.
ReplyDeleteAt some point in every relationship, you will argue. That to me shows that your human. You were your own person before you met your mate and will continue to be. Compromise is hard and it's all about who you are willing to go through that with. So, yes arguing or a healthy debate is good. Just as long and it is done fairly. It's ok to agree to disagree.
ReplyDeleteWhen you first meet someone to me u meet their representative. Their best person. Discovering someone is different than knowing them. It gets old and that time passes. It's after that initial phase you know what you have and if it's worthwhile.
You can learn a lot about a person by the way they handle themselves in an argument. Do they walk away, bring up the past, insult or disrespect you, can they express their emotions verbally or do they shut down? A way a person argues is a good way to determine how they will cope with stressful situations that may arise during the course of your relationship. It is also a good way see if you and your partner are be able to except the fact that the two of you do not have to agree on something and actually allow this to bring your relationship closer
ReplyDeleteLove what rachel said! you nailed it!
ReplyDeleteAMEN rachel. i couldn't agree with you more...
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