It’s said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results.I’ve always wondered why it seems women struggle the most with knowing their self-worth. At the core, self-love and self-worth are at the root of why we choose the partners we choose. Finding out your mate is not the person you thought he or she was, is totally different from believing every ex is not the person you hoped them to be.
Ladies, have you ever found yourself stuck in the rut when it came to dating? That the same "type" of man kept on coming your way?
I seem to always attract the man who has "potential" and that is mainly my fault for never expecting more or believing that I can get MORE. You can say old habits die hard because for the last 10 years of losers things have yet to change..It was not working therefore, something has got to change? No?
ReplyDeleteRecently, I have made a decision to stop settling and be completely honest with myself. Which meant breaking up with my bootleg "potential" boyfriend.
I am at a place where settling is no longer an option and recognizing the pattern and attempt to break the mold. I am in my 30's now, potential is for the 20's!
If you see yourself as pennies, don't expect a man to change your perspective of who you are and treat you as if you are a millionaire..
Nessa lol you are 2 much but you always speak the truth love it :)
ReplyDeleteI agree with your statement 100% I have been with a long line of losers with potential but they have all thought me a different lessson and made me into the women I am today. I title myself Miss preoceed with caution because in order for you to get on this ride you going to go through a 1,000 page applicaiton. Being stuck in a rut sucks but when you become more open and free minded things will change aim high and never low :)
Exactly Cassy! LOL @ 1,000 page application! Im so with you! Your girl here has a list of must have! he must pass with an A or B++ in order to be considered! And yes I am grading! I would never tell a dude that but I am doing it! Plus I am trying something different. I am not going to be a one man dater! NOPE. Open like you said...keeping different applications on deck until one gets hired and passes probationary period!
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